The best way to catch a cheating spouse is to find proof. Finding proof that they are likely cheating or that they aren’t will settle any suspicions that you may have. Talking the issue over without proof can only damage a relationship – because if they are cheating they will just lie and not respect you any longer and they aren’t cheating, they will likely feel un trusted and not understood.
So if you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, then you must work to find proof of their cheating. The proof doesn’t have to be anything major like DNA tests or whatever… it just has to be something that suggests they are up to no good, so you can talk it over in a controlled and focused manor.
The easiest way to find out what your partner’s been up to is to use their phone records. By searching through their cell phone’s incoming / outgoing calls, text messages and address book, you can go through and find the numbers which you don’t recognize. All you need to do is browse through their phone and note down all the numbers you don’t recognize.
After that, you just need to perform a reverse phone lookup on each of the numbers to find out who they are owned by. This can be done using a variety of methods which are detailed below:
- Perform a free reverse phone lookup on listed land lines using the likes of Google and WhitePages.com. This will give you the name and address of the phone number’s owner however the details will probably out of date and only listed (public) land lines can be searched.
- Use a comprehensive reverse cell phone lookup such as the one at the top of this page. This type of reverse phone lookup is provided by a private company and allows you to search through millions of cell phone, land line, toll free and 800 numbers. Although the service charges a small fee for comprehensive information, you do get instant access to recent name, address, line details, carrier information and further background info for any number you search for.
The service is guaranteed for 56 days so you will be sure to find the information you’re looking for.
Once you search for each of the numbers you have noted down, all you need to do then is identify the really suspicious ones and then take up the issue with your partner. You will find that by having gone to the lengths to find out the information you have, your partner will be more willing to talk to you even if they aren’t cheating. It shows that you do care a lot about the relationship since you went to some trouble to find out what’s going on.
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