Undoubtedly the best way to catch a cheating spouse is to look through their cell phone / phone bill and find numbers which you don't recognize. Any of the numbers on there which you can't relate to could be their lover, which means that you need to make doubly sure who owns each of those numbers.
Essentially, when working out if your spouse is cheating, you need to be as sure as you can about what they are up to. This means that you need to find proof of their cheating before you possibly cause damage to the relationship by suggesting they are cheating when they mightn't be. All you need to do is look at their most personal communication devices (their cell phone or computer) and then see what they've been doing and who they've been speaking to.
The easiest, quickest and probably the best way to find out if they are cheating is to just look through their cell phone's logged records (income / outgoing calls, text messages and their address book). This will give you direct access to those they have been communicating with through their cell phone, allowing you to look through all their records to find people's numbers in there that you don't recognize.
The best way to search through their cell phone is to do it when they are fast asleep one night. All you need to do is pick up the phone, switch it on and then proceed in looking through all their call logs, text messages folders and address book to see what numbers are in there. There will be numbers in there that you recognize, but also ones which you don't and it's those that you don't recognize that you need to write down and make a note of.
Once you've looked through all of the phone's records, make sure you replace the cell phone in exactly the same place as you found it and then keep the noted telephone numbers for when you can safely use the Internet to look for the owners. Once you're able to get online and do some investigation work, you will want to perform some reverse phone lookups on the numbers.
To do that, and to get access to the name and address of who owns some of the numbers, you should first try looking in Google or WhitePages.com for each of the numbers. Please note that although the two web sites there offer free reverse phone lookups, they only provide basics out of date information for listed land lines only.
That means if some of the numbers you're trying to search are cell phone numbers, etc then you will have to use a reverse cell phone lookup. These services do charge a small fee but they are 100X times better than the free services. For unlimited lookups, the price is around $50 for life. The company offering the service gives a 56 day guarantee on every record, too - meaning you will definitely get access to the best information.
By using any of the services above, you can find out who owns each of the numbers you did not recognize which then means you can work on further investigations with your findings. |
