To tell if your spouse is cheating on you, it's essential that you gather as much evidence or proof as possible of their activities. If they are cheating on you, then the likelihood is that they will be leaving a trail of evidence from their cell phone to their bills... just waiting for you to discover.
Without any evidence, the chances are that you will do more damage to the relationship than it's worth. This is because if your partner is cheating, they will likely lie to you (they become very good liars) and then cease to honestly trust you any more, or they mightn't be cheating at all which would lead them to not trust you for that either. By finding proof, you will be showing your partner that you do truly "care" about the relationship and you will know for sure what exactly they are doing.
The best method for finding proof of a spouse's cheating is by looking through what is likely to be their most personal possession, their cell phone. Because no one else will likely use their cell phone, they suspect that anything they do with it (and is stored on it) will be kept private. That's until you look through it.
To best find proof of your spouse's cheating, you need to look through their phone (most likely at the dead of night when they're asleep) and proceed to look through all of the recorded data on there. This will consist of incoming / outgoing call logs, text messages and their contact address book. By looking through all of those records you will be looking at who they've called and contacted with that phone.
If you come across any numbers that you don't recognize, then just write them down on a piece of paper. When you've gone through all the records on the phone, you should then return it and then proceed to find out who all those numbers belong to.
To do this, you will need to use a reverse phone lookup tool. These tools are freely available through the likes of Google or WhitePages.com, however these services only provide name and address information for listed land lines. This means any cell phone number (the number of choice for cheaters) won't be searchable, as well as every other phone number apart from listed land lines.
If you try the numbers in those services with no luck, then you will need to use a cell phone lookup service such as the one featured at the top of this page. These services do cost a small fee, however they are incredibly reliable (up-to-date) and offer lots of information including: name, address, line details, carrier information and further background information.
If you use any of those services to find out who owns the numbers you found, you can then start to investigate further or even confront your spouse directly. |
