Before you begin any form of investigation, let us emphasize that we recommend that you treat your other half as innocent, disregarding any pre-judgments or ideas you may have. Even if you have strong suspicions, it’s imperative to keep your judgment unclouded whilst trying to find what’s really going on. Anyone who strongly believes their spouse is cheating will likely twist anything they find to be something that its not and may damage the relationship even further.
When trying to catch a cheating spouse, you need to focus on collecting proof of their cheating. This is done through the devices they use for communication, most notably their cell phone or computer. Because they will have to communicate with their lover, these devices are your primary source for proof of their activities.
In this tutorial, we are going to focus on their cell phone simply because it’s the one thing that 99% of cheating partners use to communicate with their lovers. Because the cell phone is a personal device that isn’t shared, they can rest assured that no-one will be see any of their personal messages or contacts… unless someone looks through it.
As someone checking if your spouse is staying true, it’s important to reassure yourself (especially if you have any doubts) that although you are invading their privacy, it is for the best for both of you.
To find who they’ve been calling, you first need to look through their address book on their phone and then the received & incoming call logs. These are all usually accessible from the phone’s menu. When you’ve found these logs & information on their phone, you need to then go through all the numbers and names and write down the all ones that you don’t recognize. These will be the ones which could be a potential lover and so will need to be further investigated.
After you’ve gone through the logs on their personal (not business) cell phone, you need to then find out who’s behind the numbers. This is normally done with a reverse phone lookup through the likes of Google or WhitePages.com. These services provide you with a name and address, which you should be able to draw some idea of who owns them from.
Reverse phone lookups are free for listed land line numbers through the services mentioned above, but if you have no luck with those, then you will need to use a more comprehensive lookup tool. By using the search box above, you can search any phone number and find information including name, address, line details, carrier information and further background information.
Although the service charges a small fee, you will be able to perform as many reverse phone lookups 100% legally and confidentially as you need. Doing this will give you all the information you will need to see if your partner has been talking with "someone else". Not only will you get the owner's phone number, but a wealth of background information about them too.
And it's this information (household members, criminal record, etc) which will give you the best indication of who's behind the number. Once you've searched for all the numbers using reverse phone lookups, then it's your job to see which ones are legitimate and which could be potential lovers.
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